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F, 22 - Perth, WA

Love FF been on the site for over 4 years now and dont have a bad thing to say aboutit the whole site is like a communty and ppl are freindly and there always a hello when u go to the chatroom

M, 36 - Sydney, NSW

I have met some beautiful people that would have remained outside my life if I hadn't dived in and taken on board all that fling has to offer. Thank you.

F, 24 - Melbourne, VIC

I have met the most wonderful people and con honestly say that I would never have found my true best friend without it.

F, 33 - Brisbane, QLD

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Body-type list updated (now with added curves)

By oodlum (FF Host)

Updated 23 Jan, 13 - 7 comments.

Thanks to some member feedback, we've added a new body type: "Curvy". Curvalicious members can update their profile here. 'ood.
Reading profiles vs being realistic

By promise!!!!

19 Jan, 13 - 9 comments.

I have read a number of blogs about how men send out so many messages but rarely get replies or the chance to meet up with anyone...my question is do any of you actually bother to read the profile o…
I left school years ago

By shyzie

16 Jan, 13 - 14 comments.

why is it that even when i am 42 you still get wankers in your life!! I have been on ff for 1 year now but just one bad apple has now made me think is this really worth it I have had a great year an…
Sex Ed.

By nux (FF Host)

Updated 14 Jan, 13 - 9 comments.

One afternoon a little girl returned from school, and announced that her friend had told her where babies come from. Amused, her mother replied: "Really, sweetie, why don't you tell me all about it…
This is a cracker!

By nux (FF Host)

11 Jan, 13 - 7 comments.
For Charity

By Discretion87

Updated 07 Jan, 13 - 11 comments.

Sometimes I wonder what possesses me to do things like this. Traditionally, I am not an active person; I've always taken more of an interest in the intellectual. I am, after all, a writer by trade, …
Fear Of Love

By Cpt_Amaz1ng

Updated 07 Jan, 13 - 5 comments.

At times he often found himself submerged deep in the thought of her, detailing everything in his mind as though it were a picture, from her soft, gentle skin, her sweet but tender lips, the purity …
The Raven

By Cpt_Amaz1ng

06 Jan, 13 - 4 comments.

Once upon a midnight dreary, while I pondered weak and weary, Over many a quaint and curious volume of forgotten lore, While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a tapping, As of some one g…
Amazing photo of a gorgeous Sea Horse!

By nux (FF Host)

Updated 04 Jan, 13 - 15 comments.
children and humour

By promise!!!!

03 Jan, 13 - 1 comment.

that moment when you realise your children have your twisted sense of humour....and you don't know whether you should be proud or scared!! this is so my 3, they love to stir eachother up and it is h…