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Love FF been on the site for over 4 years now and dont have a bad thing to say aboutit the whole site is like a communty and ppl are freindly and there always a hello when u go to the chatroom

M, 36 - Sydney, NSW

I have met some beautiful people that would have remained outside my life if I hadn't dived in and taken on board all that fling has to offer. Thank you.

F, 24 - Melbourne, VIC

To all the Admin staff and to the owners and developers... I am truly grateful. I met a beautiful and truly sincere person here... And not just one, but many.

F, 22 - Perth, WA

I have met the most wonderful people and con honestly say that I would never have found my true best friend without it.

F, 33 - Brisbane, QLD

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First photo contest winners!!

By oodlum (FF Host)

Updated 05 Jul, 07 - 1 comment.

I'm pleased to announce that the winners of the June 2007 photo contest are ifonly and digitalmess!!! Congratulations :D - there will be a $250 cheque in the mail for each of you shortly. Click here…
New Scam-Busting Features Added

By oodlum (FF Host)

Updated 05 Jul, 07 - 0 comments.

Today we introduced a new system to keep the scammers and fakes out of the FlingFinder community. It's a four-stage vermin filter: 1. We now manually review every new profile before it is activate…
Photo contest scoring explained

By oodlum (FF Host)

Updated 05 Jul, 07 - 2 comments.

There are a few possible ways to rank a contest. I've tried to work out a formula that accurately determines the most popular photographs. Methods that don't work: The highest average score - doesn…
Photo/Holiday Competitions Update

By oodlum (FF Host)

Updated 30 Jun, 07 - 0 comments.

Hey all. I'm in Melbourne atm for the Tri-Nations game. Go Wallabies - woooot! This is just a quickie to say that early next week I'll be announcing the winners of our first photo contest - good luc…
Guide To Watching Emotional Movies with a Lady Friend

By Reg Bartley

19 Jun, 07 - 9 comments.

Say you there, yes you! No - not you, the guy behind you. Is that a tear I see in your eye? It is? You must feel really feminine right now - and/or disgraced? You think it's perfectly acceptable to …
Just a little whine

By Seahorse666

11 Jun, 07 - 2 comments.

G'day everyone Just a little whine from me... Why don't any of you buggers go into chat? Everytime I've been in there ... there's nobody but meeeeeeee
Spam Messages

By oodlum (FF Host)

Updated 08 Jun, 07 - 0 comments.

Spammers and fraudsters are the scourge of all dating and social networking sites. The cons are usually pretty similar; "hello - I'm a very pretty but lonely girl/guy. I don't care what you look like…
Finding Love

By Reg Bartley

01 Jun, 07 - 2 comments.

Good morrow. I'm Reg Bartley. Author, part time-baker, full time gun slinger. You know, people often come up to me...and ask for money. More often than not, I will rather violently whip them away,…
Sunday is a day of Leisure

By Feaxx

30 May, 07 - 6 comments.

For most people, Sunday is a recovery day. Boring! I make an effort to go out on Friday nights, hit the turps with a vengeance and then spend saturday recovering. I normally go to bed early on Satur…