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Genuine Australian Online Personal Ads
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Female, 27 years old
Melbourne, VIC, AU, Australia
Hey! My name is Jahcinter, I am pretty easy going and down to earth. I don't take a lot to heart so people find me easy to get along with. I like so many things so i am sure we will have something in common. Kick me, if you are game :p... view profile
Male, 25 years old
Howard Springs, NT, AU, Australia
I'm here to meet new people and have some fun, open to trying new things so send me a message it's only way we are going to get to know each other... view profile
Female, 24 years old
Campbell, ACT, AU, Australia
I'm pretty open-minded, up for trying new things. Currently studying and working not looking for anything super serious so yeah :)... view profile
Female, 25 years old
Coburg, VIC, AU, Australia
Hi, I am 20 , from England. I love to be outside, dining out, cooking, art ,coffee. Looking for a Fbw.... view profile
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Male, 29 years old
Parafield Gardens, SA, AU, Australia
I'm in an open relationship and I'm looking for friends with benefits or polyamorous Relationship I'm just looking for open honest women that are looking for some fun I have a very low tolerance for bullshit I have had a profile here before... view profile
Female, 26 years old
Richmond North, VIC, AU, Australia
asian girl looking for white guys from 28-35 yrs old just have some fun or can go futher hope they gonna like asian... view profile
Elements of the Best Online Personal Ads
Before you create or update your online personals profile, read through our tips for creating profiles that are a memorable and effective. Don’t waste another day disappointed that no one seems to be responding to your profile. Implement these ten points and you’ll be making connections immediately.
1. Being Out of the Ordinary
Have a look at some of the existing profiles on your online personals site. If they all say the same thing, there’s no originality. If you want to meet some great people quickly, you have to add some pizzazz to your profile. Create a catchy tag line, find an interesting way to describe yourself, and don’t be afraid to be funny. Be yourself but do what it takes to differentiate yourself.
2. Photos that make you stand out
All those boring personals ads you looked through probably all have boring head shots for photos, right? Your photo is another opportunity to demonstrate that you’re unique and fun. Get a great shot of you doing one of your favourite activities or in front of a well known landmark. As long as the photo is clear and up to date, use as much creative license as you want.
3. Selective use of online dating terminology
Cyber jargon is great for seasoned techies, but for the rest of us, it can be pretty alienating. Aim to be as inclusive as possible in your writing and avoid using too many online dating acronyms like DTE (down to earth) and F2F (face to face).
This is where a trusted friend and proof-reader come in handy. You might describe yourself as a funny person, but if you’re profile lacks humour, you haven’t really put your money where your mouth is. After you’ve written your profile, have a friend read it to make sure that you’ve actually described yourself accurately and that you aren’t actually saying something else between the lines.
5. Short and Sweet
Nothing can be more fun to read than a profile that’s short and punchy. No one needs to read line after line of all your favourite books and movies and songs. Keeping your description of yourself succinct and concise will leave people intrigued and wanting more.
6. Nothing too Strange
Your online dating profile is intended to create interest and curiosity. You can do this without disclosing all your bizarre little secrets and fetishes. Create a little mystery by saving some interesting tidbits about yourself for when you are getting to know a particular person.
7. Well written and grammatically correct
Don’t be in such a rush to publish your online personal ads that you don’t take the time to proofread. A sloppy profile will make you appear sloppy. Bad grammar and frequent spelling mistakes could make you seem unintelligent. Have a friend edit your profile for you so that you can ensure you’re putting the absolute best foot forward.
8. Enough Info without Boasting
When creating your profile, you really want to cultivate the ability to give a good amount of information about yourself without appearing boastful or self absorbed. No one wants to read a grocery list of all your accomplishments and successes. Strike that balance between being self-effacing and self glorifying by highlighting what you’ve achieved as well as who you truly are inside.
9. Realistic Expectations of your Ideal Match
An important element of your profile will be your description of your ideal match. Be careful that your description isn’t too superficial. There’s nothing wrong about listing some physical qualities you prefer, but make sure to also include personality and character traits as well.
10. Honesty and Forthrightness
First and foremost, your profile needs to be honest. There’s no need to mislead people with false information about yourself. Lying and deceiving will most likely not get you the relationship you are looking for.
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